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This drama started with a promising story but the writer decided to make a cliche conflict which destroy the future of this drama. I really disappointed with how the writer depicts the exes of both lead. Also, other downside is from the music cut. The music transition between scenes is not that smooth. At first, i really like the female lead character because she is not a weak lead, but a strong one. Her character is a rational one, until...her ex comes in (first ex). The male lead character is a gem in K-drama land because not many male lead character is as mature as he is. Dr. Kim is a mature man with a great amount of patience for his girlfriend. Whenever the female lead starts to get anxious, the male lead is there to guide her. The male lead is always there for her, but is she? She is a selfish girlfriend and always pushes the male lead away no matter how hard the male lead tried to get close to her. The male lead, never, for once, had a doubt in their relationship, even from the first time they met. But the female lead had nothing but doubt, and that only goes away in the last 2 episode (after the exes conflict).
I get it, I understand her, at first, because she just got cheated on by her 2nd ex. But as the story goes on, I don't think that her way of trying to make it better by hurting the male lead is right, by trying to push away the male lead. I really hate the misunderstanding the female lead feels. She feels like she brings nothing but problems to the male lead which by the way, the male lead is okay with it. So, what's the problem? It's just a problem the writer wrote when he/she did not have any other brilliant choice of conflict, "just use the same old tricks, here comes the exes problem that will put your relationship on a test".
This drama had so much potential to make it to my best drama list along with It's Ok It's Love, but the conflict just take it all away. It's such a shame cause the leads chemistry is like no other. I rarely see the lead chemistry as mature as they are. That's why I put It's Ok It's Love as my first choice of best drama i've ever watched. The lead's relationship (in Dinner Mate) feels real, even if there is not much kiss or hot scene between the leads, but I can feel the warmth from their relationship. The kiss feels real, the touchy scene also feels real, except for one specific kiss scene (you'll know which when you see it).
My last thought of this drama, my regret for the writer is that it would’ve been better if the conflict is the build up of the leads romance. Because the two lead is someone who got hurt by their past (twice for the female lead), it woud've been better if the writer put more focus on the process of the lead getting to know each other. The exes story would be better if they are just one of the conflict not the main conflict. And it will be even better for the ending to show the leads marriage, not just a proposal. Actually, for me, it may be even better if the two lead got married throughout the story and the conflict are them trying to build a family together. Because, marriage is not the real ending in a relationship, and how they maintain their marriage is a great ordeal for this kind of story (like Tomorrow With You with less dramatic story).
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Not your kind cliche love story
Heart warming and realistic relationship. It might be a lil bit boring for someone who likes clingy things and fluttering love story, but i personally love their relationship so much, it shows how mature and health relationship should be. Also, there are many cameo and supporting role who are really good so it brings up the vibe and make this drama even better.The sick ex ones actually bring a little tension and thriller in this drama, eventhough i think they're too much focusing on him. But overall i don't find it bothers the whole story. Super worth to watch.
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This drama is just 'alright'. Not bad, but not good either. There is really nothing memorable or 'impactful' scene in this drama. The chemistry between the main leads are so-so. I only watched this drama for Na-Eun (Jin No-Eul) but her character annoys me (I believe that's a good thing because it means she did her character well that it makes me want to slap her because of her selfishness).
On the other side, the coloring of this drama is very pretty and aesthetic looking, and the OSTs are good.
So far my least favorite types of dramas are dramas about foods.
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A show with a decent first half and a phenomenal second half.
THIS REVIEW CONTAINS MAJOR SPOILERS AND IS MOSTLY AIMED AT PEOPLE WHO'VE ALREADY SEEN THE SHOW.No other drama compelled me to write a review as much as Dinner Mate did, especially so after I read all the other reviews which seem to be very big opposites of what I liked about the drama. This won't be much of a coherent review but rather writing down my thoughts after just finishing the show 3 minutes ago.
A big thing I read in other people's reviews is that they felt the first half was good but soon after the quality went down and the show started dragging. For me it was the complete opposite where I felt the 2nd half to be vastly superior in both quality and storytelling (though not flawless). The main things I want to talk about are the characters Woo Do Hee and Jung Jae Hyuk for I felt that this drama did an amazing job of creating an ex boyfriend turned stalker/obsessive personality disorder and secondly Do Hee is a very intelligently written character and played to near perfection by the lovely Seo Ji Hye.
Jae Hyuk and Do Hee made this show for me. While I liked the romance of Do Hee and Hae Kyung I didn't particularly feel connected to Hae Kyung's character and as a male lead he was majorly outshined by Do Hee.
I felt that Jae Hyuk's gradual change from an ex boyfriend who felt that he had a chance to fix his old relationship to a stalker with an obsessive personality disorder was done very well. This is the part of the show that fascinated me the most. Yeah there have been stalker plots in other drama's but this is the first time I felt sympathetic towards them, which makes this a good moment to shout out the actor Lee JI Hoon who played Jae Hyuk. God my heart genuinely ached during his breakdowns after the second half. The pain I could see in his eyes and face was done amazingly well. During the first half of the show I didn't like his character at all and I think that probably goes for many people but during the second half I started to sympathize with him. Not because I think his behaviour was okay or should be accepted but because at some point in the show I started asking myself; What did he do to deserve all this misfortune? Yeah, he absolutely broke into Do Hee's home and trashed the place to look for a picture while being in his delusion. He took the wrong approach in trying to gain back her love by focussing too much on what they had in the past rather than how Do Hee feels in the present but the key thing to me is that unlike other stalker plots not once did he become violent or started to entertain dangerous thoughts towards Do Hee. He did not try to kidnap her because ''SHE'S MINE!!''. He never became violent towards her or threatened to be and only ever wanted the best for her, that which was the best in his own warped delusional way but what matters to me is intent. I think that the writers did a splendid job of creating a character who treaded so dangerously close to the line throughout the entire show and even passed that line at points but never to an extent where you felt indifferent towards him or weren't able to feel his pain. The scene where he entered Do Hee's home to look for a picture is a prime example of that. Yeah, he broke in. He committed a crime. He saw her door. Started getting delusions about their past where they were happy and proceeded to use her passcode which still worked because it was never changed. For a man to escape their delusions they must be faced with reality and that's what happened in that scene. Like he said during that scene ''There's nothing here that shows our love'' while sobbing hysterically and being totally out of reality. Rather than be angry at him, or call him a loser I just wanted him to become happy. I wanted Jae Hyuk to heal, to become better. He has made mistakes in his life but I never once felt like he should've been denied the opportunity to become happy himself.
I mentioned that it was both Jae Hyuk and Do Hee who made the show for me.
Do Hee's character was phenomenal, for the most part. I will say that during the first half I felt that her decisions didn't always
make that much sense to me but I'm not going to talk about that because that's not what I'm writing down my thoughts for. These moments weren't nearly egregious enough to ruin what I felt like her character was. They were still in line with what I thougth her character was but I did feel like she could've gone about it differently. That aside I'm going to focus on her character near the second half.
Jae Hyuk was gradually getting worse in his obsession with Do Hee. Became more aggressive towards her ( in a non violent way ) to get back together and was naturally shot down each time. I'm so glad that Do Hee never considered getting back to him a single time. Firmly rejected his advances every time. She was over him, you could see that and I'm glad the writers agreed that this is how her character should be. Before I started this show I read about the ex's coming back part and I was hoping it wouldn't be like your typical; ex's come back, female lead is happy to see them and become friendly with them but in the end the male lead wins. It wasn't like that at all. I will say this for No Eul and Hae Kyung as well. I hated No Eul's character at many points in the show but their relationship was very similar in the sense that Hae Kyung also never budged or considered getting back together, not even once. Now the reason I am happy about this is not because I think ex's should never be given a second chance. Sometimes things don't work out you know, sometimes many years without seeing eachother and forgetting eachother can mature a person to where a relationship could suddenly work out. But this wasn't that kind of show. Do Hee didn't want to get back with him whatsoever so there was nothing to fix.
A key thing about Do Hee, something that complicated her relationship with Hae Kyung, was that every time Jae Hyuk would pull something to get back with her or try to win her heart but made mistakes in the process Do Hee felt so small and embarassed. At first I didn't quite get why. I feel like if I was in Do Hee's shoes I would detach my own self and worth from him and rather than feel embarassed I would feel annoyed but not be impacted on how I would interact with a love interest. After watching more of Do Hee and these moments I realized that what she really wanted was a normal relationship and to a lesser extent a normal life. She mentioned multiple times how her relationships had gotten to be such a mess. I think she was probably scared for a repeat of that, because it happened twice already and Jae Hyuk was well on his way to ruin it all.
A particular scene that really stood out to me and will probably remain with me for a while was when Do Hee took Jae Hyuk to the police station by taxi to report him for stalking and breaking in. She was incredibly cold unlike what we've seen of her in the show. She felt dead inside and so jaded by Jae Hyuk. After they stepped out of the taxi Jae Hyuk walked behind her and just said his typical ''mianhae'' after which she lost it and collapsed on her knees while screaming out of frustration. Rather than Jae Hyuk coming over to her to console or try to take advantage of this situation he just stood there, with a slightly shocked but stoic face. At that point he probably realized what he's doing to Do Hee and what an effect everything has on him. It was after this scene that he slowly started to entertain the thought of being ill, though being dismissive of it at first but later coming to terms with it. I felt that this scene was incredibly well done. The softer side of Do Hee came back and rather than actually report him for stalking and breaking in she called Geon u to take him away to a psychiatrist. I felt that this moment really showed what Do Hee deep down wanted. She wanted nothing to do anymore with Jae Hyuk but deep down wanted him to heal and find his own happiness for the sake of both of them.
Jae Hyuk and Do Hee had an incredibly toxic relationship during the entire show. But for me personally it was written in such a way that you could really see the gradual change from ''annoying ex boyfriend'' to someone who was a danger to himself and in complete delusion of where he stands.
Dinner mate absolutely has it's flaws but amidst scenes of mediocrity the complexity of two characters really elevated parts of this show to be something really special. Many people will not agree with me but that's the beauty about media and more specifically a show like this. People with different values and tolerance levels will enjoy different parts about this show.
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Specific love journey
All characters are well playedEspecially ~Seo Ji Hye [ Woo Do Hee ] her smile acting all is cloud nine
Main lead Song Seung Heon [ Kim Hae Kyung ] and Seo Ji Hye [ Woo Do Hee ] are best pair
Their chemistry in love scenes are mesmerising
Ost is also awesome
thank you
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Too much filler
Dropped it after episode 8.I guess I'm one of the few people who didn't particularly like this show. It just felt like I could skip several episodes at a time without missing anything from the storyline. Too much of their daily lives, not enough of lead male/female interactions. Where in other shows side characters move the plot along and paint the picture of what the lead character's life looks like, here they take so much screen time you completely forget the plot and whose life story you're supposed to be following.
The only thing I liked was leads' acting, though it was difficult to feel the chemistry between the characters, with their interactions so far spread out throughout the show. I also found myself not really caring about either of them the more I watched.
Not a bad show, just not the show for me.
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For the music, I ranked it seven for now. I know the OST is not bad but can't recall a memorable melody just yet compare to other dramas where you get hooked by the soundtrack right on the 1st episode. A few popular music however was featured.
For the 4 episodes so far, it's definitely worth watching. I will continue supporting this drama and see how it wraps up and I hope it wraps up great.
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Comédia romântica fofa mas que fala de assuntos importantes.
Dinner mate falou de assuntos psicológicos bem importantes de maneira divertida, alertou sobre um quadro obsessivo que alguns relacionamentos podem levar.Como uma comédia romântica ela realmente cte faz passar raiva rs. Mas recomendo pra quem quer ter vários surtos.
Os protas parecem dois adolescente mesmo tendo mais de 30 anos e tem o casal secundário mais amorzinho do mundo. ENFIM COLOCARAM O CARA LOUCO PRA SE TRATAR EM UM DORAMA, na verdade os eps finais foram muito bons pra mostrar o rumo dos outros personagens. Eu realmente amei isso os principais já estavam arrumados.
Poderia ter sido um drama de 12 eps? sim, mas ok rs
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Esta serie me dio mucho hambre
Comencé a ver esta serie porque me encanta Song Seung Heon y la historia sonaba es bastante interesante, ya que habla mucho de cómo la comida influencia los estados psicológicos de las personas. Yo lo vivo en mi día a día, amo comer rico, amo compartir la comida, es un placer especial, por eso me sentí tan identificada con el tema. Lo que me dejo más feliz con esta serie fue la actuación de Lee Ji Hoon. Destacó mas que al de los protagonistas, realmente sufrí con él.Lo otro que influenció mucho fue la gran confusión de capítulos, te muestran 16 y dice que son 32, lo que no te dicen es que cada capitulo es de media hora, y donde te están mostrando los 16, cada capitulo contiene 2, eso hizo que pasara todo el rato expectante de que mas iba a pasar y la serie estaba terminando. Menos mal que termino, ya que lo único que me preocupaba era que nueva maldad iban agregar para extenderla.
Lo malo:
La verdad no la sentí tan fluida, todo para mí era forzado, no me creía mucho de lo que decían. Es interesante que el destino hiciera que siguieran encontrándose, aunque muchas veces por como estaba mostrada la escena, parecía que el protagonista buscaba encontrarla y lo lograba. Estaba clarísimo que la función de los exnovios fueran ser insistentes y entrometidos, haciendo que varias situaciones sucedieran. una por egoísta y el otro por obsesivo compulsivo.
Las otras historias se pusieron mucho más interesantes que la historia principal, en especial la del vagabundo con la jefa.
Todo se diluyó rápido, y perdí el interés. en los protagonistas.
Lo que sí me tuvo a la expectativa todo el tiempo y angustiada fue el rol del ex novio. Con una personalidad tan desequilibrada y sensible, que cualquier cosa podría pasar. La escena de él en la casa de ella me partió el corazón. Puede ser porque yo, personalmente conozco varias historia verídicas de temas parecidos, que me hizo tan sensible al respecto y/o que la actuación de Ji Hoon fuera tan buena que le creía todo, jajaja.
Conclusión:
Novela romántica ligera, la disfrute, me reí, comí (tema necesario para no sufrir con tanta comida rica que ver). No esperen profundidad, solo entender una historia que quisieron que fuera a través de de la comida y termino siendo como debes evadir a los ex obsesionados. No la ame por siempre como otras, la recomiendo si buscan algo light que ver.
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Acompanhei esse drama assistindo a dois episódios por semana e achei esse ritmo ideal; acredito que esse não é um roteiro que segura uma maratona desenfreada (pode acabar sendo monótono para quem quer assistir tudo de uma vez). Ele é perfeito pra ser aquela pequena dose semanal de "quentinho no coração". A trilha sonora animadinha colabora bastante pra construir essa atmosfera confortável.
Bom, e pra quem é fã de Pousando no Amor, esse drama é um presente! Primeiro por ter a Seo Ji Hye mais uma vez na nossa frente e muito bem valorizada com um personagem e texto bem construídos. Além disso, Dinner Mate tem dois excelentes momentos de referência à Pousando no Amor; um logo no primeiro episódio, e uma outra cena que me arrancou muitas risadas e trouxe uma nostalgia gostosa.
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