I HATE this drama, it started sweet with the two ML's growing up together and being best friends, but then, just after graduation one of them leaves.
Ten years later he comes back and they meet again, I was waiting for him to be punched in the face but it never happened.
Ten years of being left in limbo, not knowing why or where your best friend went, not knowing even if he is still alive. Two days later and no real questions have been asked and I really don't understand how this makes sense to anyone,
I would make the time to ask him "Where have you been?, why did you leave? how could you leave like that and not tell me! "
How many thoughts and feeling would you go through in ten years, how sad and angry would you be after ten years? Even if you ignore it at first because you are just happy he is back, you would have to know why someone treated you like that.
I already know the reason because it is kind of obvious in the drama, but it really isn't good enough.
I think we have all been hurt by someone we love and unless you resolve the problem it will destroy the relationship. You wait with anticipation for them to walk through the door but the joy quickly turns to anger because you just can't forget and forgive how they treated you.
So many of these drama's have the same message, That love is unconditional, that you will forgive them if you truly love them.
I have a problem with this message, You should love yourself unconditionally, not someone else.
You should have morals and principles. You should have respect for yourself, allowing others to treat you badly doesn't mean you love them unconditionally , it means you don't love yourself enough.