novalinnhe
UK
Repetitive and poorly researched.
I know I only have two more episodes to go (each 'episode' is split into two smaller minisodes), but I just can't take watching this any more. Unfortunately, this means Dinner Mate takes the title of being the first drama I have ever reviewed where I have outright dropped the series.
The premise of Dinner Mate is wonderful - a rom com based around two strangers slowly bonding and falling in love over a series of lunch/dinner dates. Sadly, that isn't what you get. The drama is instead somehow focused around two side characters - the ex-partners of both the male and female leads - and although I can't go into much detail due to spoilers, their inclusion in the series is completely unnecessary at best. I found myself getting frustrated almost every time they came on screen, and it was exhausting watching them repeat the same lines, intrusions and mistakes over and over and over again. Towards the end of the series, these scenes become so frequent that the relationship between the main couple ends up taking a back seat entirely.
The drama also swings wildly between surface-level comedy and serious - REALLY serious - topics such as eating disorders and obsession. It handles the comedy well, but (excluding the incredible performance from the male ex-partner Jung Hae Hyuk) does really poorly handling the serious stuff. Another reviewer said it felt like whoever wrote the show did no research into the topics they were covering, and I completely agree - the portrayals of therapy, abuse, anorexia and other mental health conditions were egregiously wrong at some points, and outright harmful at others. For example: eating a really good meal in a therapy session cannot "cure" a disordered relationship with food, but the show proposes this several times.
Finally, I think when a relationship between a side-couple becomes more interesting than the relationship between the main pairing, there is a problem lol! We get to watch a romance between two unlikely side characters which I won't spoil but absolutely adored, and is what helped pull the score I gave acting up to 3 stars. It's such a joy watching seasoned/older actors get to show off their skills on screen when a script allows them to, and this was no exception. Since we are talking about positive things, I also LOVED the soundtrack to this drama; I actually have some of the songs saved permanently to my Spotify (Dinner Mate, More Than Words and several of the instrumental tracks). They play them to death during the show, but because the songs were so good I didn't mind at all.
TL;DR Dinner Mate is an unfortunate case of a great idea carried out by a team who were unable to bring it to life. With the drama's story veering so far away from the main couple, we don't get much time to see their relationship build and so you're left with something that feels rushed and a little lost. Had the series focused less on how much "drama" they could squeeze from the constant issues the two ex-partners cause, and instead focused on the 'two strangers bonding over food' premise that they built over the first two or three episodes, I think this would have been a much more enjoyable watch.
The premise of Dinner Mate is wonderful - a rom com based around two strangers slowly bonding and falling in love over a series of lunch/dinner dates. Sadly, that isn't what you get. The drama is instead somehow focused around two side characters - the ex-partners of both the male and female leads - and although I can't go into much detail due to spoilers, their inclusion in the series is completely unnecessary at best. I found myself getting frustrated almost every time they came on screen, and it was exhausting watching them repeat the same lines, intrusions and mistakes over and over and over again. Towards the end of the series, these scenes become so frequent that the relationship between the main couple ends up taking a back seat entirely.
The drama also swings wildly between surface-level comedy and serious - REALLY serious - topics such as eating disorders and obsession. It handles the comedy well, but (excluding the incredible performance from the male ex-partner Jung Hae Hyuk) does really poorly handling the serious stuff. Another reviewer said it felt like whoever wrote the show did no research into the topics they were covering, and I completely agree - the portrayals of therapy, abuse, anorexia and other mental health conditions were egregiously wrong at some points, and outright harmful at others. For example: eating a really good meal in a therapy session cannot "cure" a disordered relationship with food, but the show proposes this several times.
Finally, I think when a relationship between a side-couple becomes more interesting than the relationship between the main pairing, there is a problem lol! We get to watch a romance between two unlikely side characters which I won't spoil but absolutely adored, and is what helped pull the score I gave acting up to 3 stars. It's such a joy watching seasoned/older actors get to show off their skills on screen when a script allows them to, and this was no exception. Since we are talking about positive things, I also LOVED the soundtrack to this drama; I actually have some of the songs saved permanently to my Spotify (Dinner Mate, More Than Words and several of the instrumental tracks). They play them to death during the show, but because the songs were so good I didn't mind at all.
TL;DR Dinner Mate is an unfortunate case of a great idea carried out by a team who were unable to bring it to life. With the drama's story veering so far away from the main couple, we don't get much time to see their relationship build and so you're left with something that feels rushed and a little lost. Had the series focused less on how much "drama" they could squeeze from the constant issues the two ex-partners cause, and instead focused on the 'two strangers bonding over food' premise that they built over the first two or three episodes, I think this would have been a much more enjoyable watch.
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